As anybody knows who has read this blog in the past few months (or even just past 24 hours), I make my own clothes. At this point, in fact, I rarely buy anything from a store at all. It's not that I don't see a million things in stores that I want to buy, it's just that I have found so much joy in creating things with my own hands that I would rather clothe myself that way.
Sewing is something I started when I was young, and just kept coming back to again and again in life.
When I was in elementary and middle school, I made a few pieces of clothing with the extensive help of my granny and my mom. Specifically: a red and blue plaid vest with matching blue elastic waist (still love it!) shorts, a clown costume for Halloween, a neon green shift dress with yellow daisies on it, a black and purple floral skort (ah, the '90s).
My first major in college was, in fact, apparel design--a major I switched out of after the first semester because I thought if you were going to be a part of the fashion industry, you would have to live in a big city, which I never wanted to do. Ironic, considering I now live in the biggest one of them all, and also the fashion capital of the U.S.!
So after a few more changes in my major, I became a teacher instead. But I found myself sitting back down at the sewing machine during my first year of teaching, thanks to my mom (ahem...Santa) giving me a sewing machine for Christmas, and I have been making garments (mostly for myself, but sometimes for friends!) ever since.
Lately, I have been thinking about where this comes from. What it is that has drawn me back to the sewing machine each decade of my life, why I think about seam finishing all day when I'm at work, why I happily stay up way past my bedtime hunched over the ironing board, why I stare women down on the street and constantly think "How did they make her dress/top/skirt?" I think I may have figured "it" out.
When I was in kindergarten, my mom had a dalmatian print dress. Not an over-the-top, Glenn-Close-as-Cruella type dress. Just a regular dress you would wear to work or church, only the animal print of choice wasn't leopard or zebra, but dalmatian. It's no wonder that I remember this dress to this day, since it wasn't just your average dress. But the thing is, I don't just remember it; I remember everything about it. It had a 50's style shirt dress silhouette, with a full skirt, covered buttons up the front, a big belt at the waist, red trim, and a sassy collar. I thought it was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen, and I thought my mom, with her tan skin and permed hair, looked absolutely beautiful in it.
I have owned a lot of clothes in my life, but I could not describe 90% of them to you with the same detail that I can recall my mom's dalmatian dress. I remember that I thought that maybe when I grew up, I could have a dalmatian print dress too. And what I just realized is that I can. I can make one if I wanted to. I could gather up fabric and thread and a pattern and buttons, and I could sew up my own version of that dress and I may or may not end up looking like a Disney villianess.
And that's "it." Why I love to make clothes. Because the clothes you wear on any specific day help shape what you think and feel and do that day, and clothes--the really good ones--can become ingrained in you. Because some clothes you will never forget. Because clothes make memories, such as these. And with every piece of clothing that I make, I'm making my own memory right along with it.
Well said!
ReplyDeleteI may or may not have teared up while reading this. Thank you for being so passionate about something! we need more passion in the world! I love you and your sewing!
ReplyDeleteThat's right--all of it.
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